Every relationship hits a rocky patch. Some call it the seven-year itch, others call it a bust. It’s always uncomfortable, but the thing is, it can make or break a relationship.
So, how do you keep your partner happy when times get tough?
The following ideas might help you maintain your relationship with your significant other – even if your problems seem insurmountable!
Make Time for Your Partner
Making time for your partner is both a show of trust and an act of love. This means showing that you care about their feelings and emotions by spending time with them.
Even just sitting down for a conversation – even at the end of the day – can help your partner feel loved and cared for.
Another good way to show your partner you care is to pay attention to how they feel in the moment and take the time to acknowledge that even if you can’t change it.
Do Thoughtful Things for Your Partner
You chose your partner for a reason and remembering that will ensure you make better decisions in how you approach those responsibilities.
Think about what your partner likes or would like you to do and how that might make them feel.
It might be nice to get some sexy lingerie from Wild Crush if you’re a woman. If you’re a man, you might decide to buy some nice massage oils and exchange a romantic massage.
Showing you care by being thoughtful is also a great way to keep your partner’s attention!
Show Appreciation for Your Partner
The more you appreciate your partner, the more they’ll appreciate you. When you show that you see the work they do or effort they put in, they will feel appreciated and loved.
This can be as simple as giving a compliment or telling them how much you care about them, even a thank you for a household job done which is now off the communal to do list. All of these ideas work best when done without prompting or out of the blue – rather than after a request from a partner or when they are upset and stressed.
Spend Time Away from Your Partner
If you feel things are getting heated quickly, you may want to take some time away yourself.
A night out with a friend or family member could be just the tonic for some relationship comfort. This also gives you both time to think about how you feel and how to express yourselves better.
Listen To and Support Your Partner
Another great way to show you care is by listening to your partner and giving them the attention which they need.
Remember that people feel a range of emotions at any one time, making it difficult to explain or express themselves.
Practicing active listening is a great way to show your partner that you care about their words.
Set Boundaries That Work for Both of You
This is especially important if you’re both feeling down, but it also works when things are going great. If you’re both having fun, being in each other’s company all the time might not be so fulfilling.
Discuss when you’d like to spend time with each other and what will work for you. In our busy lives, setting boundaries and planning in time together is critical for keeping any relationship alive and affectionate.
